I recently tried to read an article about
Mother’s Day, but I absolutely could not get past the first paragraph. In the
article, the author stated that “a mother’s job is a thankless job.” I was
appalled! Just because our significant other or child does not verbally express
their affirmations of appreciation for our jobs as mother’s does not indicate
our job is a “thankless” one.
On the contrary! I can't begin to express the
non-verbal forms of thanks I get daily, but I will try.
My daughter thanks me with extra water on the
floor from bath times, because she appreciated all the fun we had playing
together.
My daughter thanks me on her super whiney days
by showing me that I am her comforter by clinging to me.
My daughter thanks me by throwing some of her
food on the floor during meal times, because I have fed her well.
My daughter thanks me by giving bites of her
pre-chewed food to me, because I provided her with such a tasty meal, it is
best shared.
My daughter thanks me by leaving her toys
scattered on the floor, because she was too grateful for the interaction to
think about anything else.
My daughter thanks me by crying out for me in
the middle of the night to show me that I am who she leans on when she is
frightened (or hungry…mostly hungry)
My daughter thanks me by fighting her bed time
because spending time with me is much more important than sleeping.
No, my job is not a thankless one. In fact, I
thank God everyday for this job. Let me tell you some of the many things I am
thankful for:
I am thankful for broken necklaces. My sweet
baby loves to tug on them while nursing. They will always be a reminder of our
special bond.
I am thankful for not owning an article of
clothing without stains. They will always be a reminder of all the fun things I
did with my baby girl.
I am thankful for poopy diapers that remind me
that I have been able to provide my daughter with enough food.
I am thankful for metal pots and pans, even on
the days I have a migraine. They will remind me of how creative my daughter is
to figure out how to have fun while spending time with me.
I am thankful for the many little crumbs of
food I find inside my shirt at night, because my daughter has a sense of humor
and finds it funny to drop food down my top.
I am thankful for little fingers under the
bathroom door. It is my daughter’s way of letting me know she is worried about
me being alone in the bathroom.
I am thankful for hand and face prints on the window
glass. It is a reminder for me that sometimes outside is much more important
than inside.
No, my job is definitely not a thankless one and
I hope you all have a wonderful Mother’s Day.